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St. Joseph Catholic Parish

830 S. Lafayette Street, South Lyon, Michigan
(248) 446-8700 or [email protected]

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  • 2025 Advent by Candlelight

    •  About this Special Evening

      Advent by Candlelight is a gift for all women to gather for a time of spiritual reflection on the significance & beauty of the Advent season. The evening consists of festive tables set by volunteer hostesses, an Advent reflection with a speaker, music, & of course delicious potluck food & fellowship. This is a wonderful opportunity to prepare our hearts & minds for Advent while enjoying the company of other women.

      This event is sponsored by Women of Mary.
    • Details

      All women are invited to attend either as a hostess or as an individual for open seating. Feel free to invite your friends & family for a beautiful & fun evening! Cost is $10 per person.


      • 6:00 pm:  Doors open

      • 6:30 pm:  Hors d’oeuvres at tables

      • 7:15 pm:   Speaker ~ Mary Wilkerson

      • 7:50 pm:  Choir

      • 8:15 pm:   Desserts & socialize

      • 9:00 pm:  Evening concludes & clean up

  • Our Speaker ~ Mary Wilkerson

    • Join us for Mary's Inspiring Talk


      Let the Light  Shine in the Darkness

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      Mary Wilkerson

  • ~ How This Works ~ 

    • Overview
    • Hostess
    • Individual (open seating)
    • Guests
    • Set Up
    • Table Info.
    Overview
    • Understanding How the Cuisine & Beverages Work

      Food for your table

      • Each guest brings an hors d’oeuvres to share among guests at their table (6 - 10 guests)

      Potluck desserts table

      • Each table brings 1-2 desserts to place at the potluck desserts table 
      • Each dessert should feed at least a minimum of 12 guests
      • All desserts should be cut & ready to serve
      • All women are invited to enjoy desserts from this table


      Beverages (Coffee, tea & water are provided)

      • Guests bring beverages for their table (i.e. wine, tea, & punch)
    Hostess
    • Hostess Responsibilities

      Register online (You do NOT need to provide the names of your guests)

      • Table hostesses register & pay online for their table(s). It's suggested that table guests pay the hostess $10 each to contribute to the overall table cost. Only hostesses will register & pay online (not invited guests at the table) for the reserved table(s). 
      • Please pay per person
        • Round table (60-inch table): seats 6 - 7 people
        • Rectangular table (8 ft table): seats 8 - 10 people
        • Table type depends on how many people you register & the Events Team will email you a table type confirmation prior to the event


      Information
      • Invite women to your table(s) or coordinate with a group to fill your table(s)
      • Assign 1-2 people per table to bring dessert(s) for the potluck desserts table (ea. serve 12+ people)
      • Coordinate which guests are bringing beverages & food for your table (coffee/tea/water provided)
      • Table name: create a unique or fun name for your table (displayed at your table)
      • Decide the table theme & decorate either on your own or with your table guests
      • Provide a tablecloth of any type for your table(s) + appropriate number of place settings (plates, napkins, silverware, wine & water glasses, coffee cups/saucers)
      • TIP: Bring a small side table (i.e. card table) to set up next to your table so you can place your food on
    Individual (open seating)
    • Individual (open seating) Responsibilities

      Register online

      • Bring a beverage for yourself &/or to share with table guests. (Wine, tea, punch, etc.)
      • Bring a potluck dish (hors d’oeuvres) to serve 8-10 table guests
      • Optional: Bring a dessert for potluck desserts table

      Tables

      • Open seating tables will be provided with a simple centerpiece along with simple tableware
      • If you'd like to coordinate an "open table" of individuals (decorating it, coordinating food & tableware), please note this when you register. The Event Team will place individuals at your table for you. If you're open to this, someone from the Event Team will contact you closer to the event to help review this with you.
    Guests
    • Helpful Information for Table Guests

      It's suggested that table guests pay the hostess $10 each to contribute to the overall table cost



      Guests bringing beverages
      • Bring enough to last your table for up to 3 hours (& bottle opener, if wine)

      Guests bringing hors d’oeuvres

      • "Heavy" appetizers/light meal items are shared with your table guests
      • Can be homemade or store bought - make your favorite holiday finger food (i.e. mini quiches, skewers, dips, shrimp) 

      Guests bringing desserts

      • AT LEAST ONE dessert should be brought to be shared on the potluck desserts table
      • Individuals for open seating are not bringing desserts so we need to make sure there are plenty for them to indulge in too!
      • Each dessert should serve a minimum of 12 people
      • Bring the dessert cut & ready to serve
      • Ideas: Cookies, pies, cakes cupcakes, special holiday desserts & anything festive
    Set Up
    • Set Up & Clean Up

      Set up

      • Table set up is the night prior, Wednesday, December 3rd, from 5 - 7 pm
      • It's a lot of fun as everyone is decorating their tables together!
      • Pick up your table name stand & place on your table
      • Desserts can be dropped off for the potluck dessert table, if you wish

      Clean up

      • Each table is responsible for their own clean up
      • Please make sure to bring all of your dishes home
      • If you have anyone that is willing to help us clean up the gym at 9 pm & put tables & chairs away, we'd sure appreciate it!


      Provided by Event Team

      • Coffee, tea & water
      • Disposable coffee cups will be available
      • Plates, napkins & forks for potluck dessert table

    Table Info.
    • Table Sizes & Decorating Ideas

      Table Sizes

      • Round table (60-inch table): seats 6 - 7 people

      • Rectangular table (8 ft table): seats 8 - 10 people 
        • For 10 people, 4 sit on each side + 1 on each end


      **Reminder** Hostesses provide their own tablecloths



      Ideas

      • Candles: both real & battery candles are acceptable
      • Select a theme & table name for your table
      • Centerpieces
      • Advent / Christmas poems or small table favors for each place setting
      • Skim through the photo albums from past years (bottom of this page) for ideas as well as this document: Some table ideas

        Feel free to be as creative or as simple as you want. Some use fine China while others use festive paper plates. Some choose elaborate center pieces, some contribute Advent / Christmas poems or little mementos for each place setting while others just bring the necessities.
    • Bring Good(s) for Active Faith

      We are asking for canned goods to donate to Active Faith. Please drop off your canned food donations on the tables outside of the gym entrance when you arrive. 

      You may also drop off your donations the night prior while hostesses are decorating their tables from 5 - 7 pm.  Thank you!

      Active Faith Website

    • Event Donations Appreciated

      We appreciate contributions to help make this event possible since this is sponsored by Women of Mary. Your generosity will help defray costs (i.e. speaker, decorations, supplies & promotional materials). 

      Please note that this is not a donation to the church & any proceeds will benefit Women of Mary. Thank you for your generosity!

      Make Contribution

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    • Questions?

      Please contact Melissa on the Events Planning Team at (616) 516-3001 or email.
      Email Us Here

    • Hostess' Extra Registrations

      If you're a hostess & have already registered & need to add additional women to your table(s), please add & pay via this link:
      Register Additional Women

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